tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post2931424254463532836..comments2023-10-28T09:48:58.774-05:00Comments on A Little Left of Lost: 30 DoT->Hate is a strong wordLeft of Losthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02620640564652478176noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-50451069162263080342010-10-06T10:22:02.655-05:002010-10-06T10:22:02.655-05:00But, you are honest with yourself. ANd some people...But, you are honest with yourself. ANd some people NEVER reach that height in their entire lives..Alexandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00609629888008025050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-32548344756217588052010-10-02T14:05:47.561-05:002010-10-02T14:05:47.561-05:00Doesn't really matter what we say here, this i...Doesn't really matter what we say here, this is how you feel about yourself. What we see or know about you will never affect how you feel about yourself. That being said, I know I feel as if you are a truly wonderful person who deserves happiness. I hope you find it soon! <br /><br />:-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-65561547800074542022010-09-30T15:59:37.982-05:002010-09-30T15:59:37.982-05:00@PBP designs-Nope, not a virgo. I'm a pisces. ...@PBP designs-Nope, not a virgo. I'm a pisces. :) Thus far, the insurance debacle is just that-a debacle. Luckily, there's no one saying we need it separate, since there is no divorce decree at this point. And yes, I will keep writing about this, so I stay sane. If I keep it inside, I will be more of a lunatic than I already am. :) <br />@LL-Oh, I love to know that I am not alone in some of these things. And sometimes these 'things' seem so random and odd, but then I get a response from someone who makes me feel less random and odd. :) Thanks for stopping by. <br />@thebossofu- No worries-I take no offense to the title of the book, or the label I may very well have to stick on my shirt. Sigh. I know people who are MAJORLY codependent, and I always knew I was a bit, but yeah, you're right. I will check out the book when I'm at the library next time. <br />Also? I do believe we may have been separated from birth after reading some of your posts. :)Left of Losthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02620640564652478176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-73723293500078070422010-09-30T13:07:34.243-05:002010-09-30T13:07:34.243-05:00Okay, so it seems as though we were separated at b...Okay, so it seems as though we were separated at birth or something, as I could have easily written every word you just did. Also, I'm not trying to call you bad names or make assumptions here - so don't get all butt hurt, por favor. And DON'T let the title offend you (like I did for so long).Here it is: <i>CoDependent No More</i>, by Melody Beattie. Changedmyfrickinlife. Seriously. <br /><br />All these thoughts and behavior patterns (especially the forgiving and the guilt) - they all tie into one another. When you get tired of living for everyone else - read it. Just sayin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-67751759236535224022010-09-30T06:05:28.088-05:002010-09-30T06:05:28.088-05:00DUDE... i so feel ya! can't believe how much i...DUDE... i so feel ya! can't believe how much i identify with every one of these things.. you are not alone, dear.. and i'm glad to hear i'm not, either!L.C. Andersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00141757491308146289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2618963181449655124.post-33390393070592920062010-09-29T23:12:57.084-05:002010-09-29T23:12:57.084-05:00I know where you are coming from and I totally sym...I know where you are coming from and I totally sympathize! Do yourself a favor, tho. GO GET THE INSURANCE IN YOUR NAME ONLY!!! Been there, paid for that...big time! Cost me over $250 to get out of the joint policy because I didn't do it earlier and I had to pay his share, too.<br /><br />I admire your moving out.<br />I admire your writing about it.<br />I admire the fact that you know you're a bit wishy-washy. (You wouldn't happen to be a Virgo, would you?)<br /><br />Hugs and prayers!<br />Heck, if I can do it, you can do it.<br /><br />PPBP Designsnoreply@blogger.com